Family disputes are often complicated and can sometimes require legal services to resolve. Our experienced family lawyers in Moncton are here to help you by offering effective legal solutions.
Meredith Bateman Law Office offers family law services including, but not limited to the following:
What Does “Custody” Mean?
If someone has “custody” of a child, they have the authority to make decisions for the child in all areas of their lives, including education, healthcare, religion, and often most importantly, where they will live.
What Does “Joint Custody” Mean?
Many divorced parents have joint custody. Joint custody really means that parents have agreed to share decision making about the children. Both parents can obtain information directly from anyone involved with the children – doctors, teachers, counselors, etc.
Ideally, the parents will agree who between them will have final decision making authority on the issues affecting their children. Often this may be the parent with whom the children reside most of the time. Some parents may agree to share the decision making responsibilities. For example, one parent might have final say on education and while the other parent might have final say on healthcare. At other times, the parents will be left to find another means to reach a decision on a decisive issue, such as through negotiation, mediation, collaborative law, or ultimately, failing all else, a court order.
Joint custody does not always mean that the children live in two houses. The parents can have joint custody even if the children mainly live with one parent and see the other parent only at certain times.
In a shared custody arrangement, the children will spend a more or less equal amount of time with each parent. This can involve a schedule of having the children rotate between homes every few days, or following a week on, week off schedule where the children alternate living with each parent for a week at a time. This arrangement tends to work for school age children when both parents live in close enough proximity to one another to allow the children to attend school uninterrupted. Alternatively, the parent who does not live in the school service area would have to make transportation arrangements to ensure the children can continue to attend school without interruption.
In a split custody situation, one child lives with the mother while the other child lives with the father and each child has access with the non-custodial parent.
Does my child have a say in determining custody?
The court must always determine custody based on what is in the child’s best interest. If parents are unable to agree on custody through negotiation, mediation, or the collaborative law process, and are seeking court intervention to decide custody, the parents are not likely to be an objective judge of what is in the child’s best interest. When caught in the middle of a custody battle and conflicting loyalties, children will often tell each parent what they want to hear during the separation.
If your child is old enough to talk about their feelings (at least school age), it may be appropriate to arrange counseling with a neutral therapist, psychologist, or school counselor. The child’s views and preferences may then be expressed through this person to the court, if required.
When a child is at least 12 years and older, the courts will generally give significant weight to the child’s wishes, provided the child’s preference does not conflict with the child’s best interest.
Do I have to allow my ex access to the children?
Access is a right that belongs to the child, not the parent. Even if your ex refuses to pay child support, you cannot deny access rights. Your child has a right to have a relationship with their other parent and this is not something that is conditional on whether or not that parent is paying child support. Unless you have evidence that the other parent is a serious danger to the child, you must allow access to them. This type of evidence could be police reports, witnesses to threats or violence, or written documentation from professionals. Even when the court accepts that there is a real concern for the children, often limits on access will be imposed, such as daytime visits only or supervised access, rather than prohibiting access outright.
What is child support?
Every parent has an obligation to support their children. Typically, the parent who does not have the day to day care of the child will pay a monthly sum to the other parent to assist in financially meeting the child’s needs.
The Federal Child Support Guidelines set out the amount of child support to be paid for the number of children requiring support in accordance to the paying parent’s income. There are different tables for each province and territory which take into consideration the various differences in provincial and territorial tax rates. Child support is calculated by determining the paying parent’s annual income and using the appropriate table for the paying parent’s province of residence, finding the set rate for the number of children to be supported. For example, a paying parent in New Brunswick with a gross (before tax) annual income of $35,000.00 would pay $305.00 per month for one child, $515.00 per month for two children, and $682.00 per month to support three children.
If the children are living with both parents equally, or if the children are in a split custody arrangement, child support calculations start with calculating the support each parent would pay to the other for the corresponding number of children in the other parent’s care. In a split custody arrangement, only the difference, or off-set amount of child support, is paid by the parent with the higher support obligation to the other parent. In a shared custody arrangement, the court has the discretion to award a different amount of support to compensate for the added costs a shared custody arrangement can create.
Federal Child Support Guideline
What is child support supposed to pay?
Child support is meant to cover expenses such as rent, food, clothing, and extracurricular activities such as dance lessons and sports.
Child support does not cover child care expenses (to allow the other parent to work or attend school), medical or other healthcare expenses, or post-secondary expenses. These expenses fall into the category of “special expenses” which typically result in an additional payment of support. Special expenses are generally shared between the parents so that each parent assumes a share of the expense in proportion to his or her income. If the mother earns twice the father’s income, she will pay two-thirds of the cost of the special expenses while he contributes one third, even if the children reside with her most of the time.
What about spousal support?
Spousal support can be awarded when one spouse has lost the ability to earn an income as the result of a decision during the marriage to stay home to care for the children. Spousal support is intended to assist the disadvantaged spouse during the period of transition resulting from the marital breakdown until the disadvantaged spouse can regain a measure of self-sufficiency. Spousal support is not intended to equalize the incomes between the two parties.
Spousal support can only be awarded if the disadvantaged spouse can demonstrate the need to receive support and the other spouse has the means to pay support. Many factors are considered before the court makes an award of spousal support, including the length of the marriage, the roles each spouse assumed in the marriage, the ages of children, the financial means of each spouse, the age of each spouse, and the amount of child support being paid if any. Spousal support may be awarded for a set period of time, such as the time required for the receiving spouse to complete an educational course, it may be reviewable after an initial period of time to determine if the further support is required, or it may be awarded for an indefinite period of time, particularly when the receiving spouse is over the age of 50 years and the parties had a lengthy, traditional marriage.
Unlike child support, spousal support is considered as taxable income for the spouse who receives it, while the paying spouse can claim a tax deduction. While there are now Spousal Support Guidelines, these calculations do not produce mandatory numbers the court must accept, but rather suggest a range of support as options.
Who gets to keep what?
If you were married, you each have a right to half of all property that you and your partner acquired during the marriage, regardless of who actually paid for things. You are both also responsible for half of all the marital debts. If you lived in a common law relationship, the answer is not quite so straightforward.
Not every asset can be considered a marital asset. Items acquired before the marriage, as well as gifts and inheritances are typically excluded, depending on the circumstances and how those assets may have been used during the marriage. The marital home is generally the exception if it was owned by one spouse before the marriage and became the family residence after the marriage. Generally the value of all the marital assets, including the marital home, vehicles, savings, investments, pensions, furniture, and jewelry needs to be calculated and divided equally between the spouses. The marital debts also need to be divided between the parties. Generally, both parties will end up with the same net value of assets.
How do I get my stuff back?
First, is it really your stuff? If it was yours before your relationship, then you may have a right to get it back, depending on how it was used during the relationship.
If you got the item during the relationship, then you need to negotiate with your ex-partner about this return. If you were married, you are entitled to half of its value. This does not mean they have to give you the item, just half of what it is worth.
If at all possible, try to negotiate with your ex-partner about all of the property that you shared, including the house, cottage, savings, and furniture. If you cannot agree on how to divide property, particularly the household contents, it can become somewhat costly for you to have lawyers arguing over who gets which set of dishes or living room furniture.
How much will it cost me?
Family law matters are rarely simple and straightforward. The breakdown of a marital relationship involves many emotions, emotions which sometimes cloud usually sound judgment. While one spouse may be ready to split all the assets and debts and move past the relationship, the other spouse may not be so ready. Unless both spouses are ready to deal with all the issues, it may take some time to negotiate resolution to the issues. If there is no consensus on the issues of custody, support, division of property, and debts, a court application takes time. Unfortunately, the more time your lawyer must devote to your file to resolve your issues, the more it will end up costing you. Simply put, the longer you and your spouse argue over the issues, the more it will cost you. This does not mean that you should accept an unfair settlement just because your spouse says that is their offer. But it does mean that if you are refusing to resolve the issues out of spite, or a desire to “punish” the other spouse, you will have to be prepared to finance that battle.
When it comes to divorce or separation, what to do with your shared property becomes an issue. This is why Meredith Bateman Law Office handles real estate and mortgages as part of our practice. Give us a call and see how we can help you with our family and divorce law expertise for Moncton and Riverview.
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